Dear Governor Schwarzenegger -
I'm somebody who believes in old-fashioned letters, and the old-fashioned concept that people living together should be married. So today I want to share my response to a YouTuber who read (or rather watched) my July 27 letter to you about upgrading Domestic Partnerships to Marriage.
Its IMPOSSIBLE to love someone FOREVER! sooner or later your love for someone will deminish, its only after your love deminishes where true love can be formed. True love is sometihng like "no matter what happens, i will always love you" kinda like a mother and her kids. Its only after you lose your love for someone, then you can create true love. that will be the ultimate test
Well, my "partner" and I have been together for ten years three months (yesterday). We liked and loved each other when we met, and we still like and love each other now. We had two kids through surrogacy in March. We made a commitment to each other and to God to stick together through the rough spots, and it worked to make our love even stronger. We did that without "marriage." So all these hateful laws are not even effective - only hurtful, not just to us, but to the whole idea of "marriage." Like you said, it's true love that makes a family. We passed that test - can we get married now?
So, Governor, the kids are asking "why marriage." Your veto of AB 43 combined with our example of true love out of wedlock shows the unfortunate side-effect of "defending marriage" by excluding people: like postal mail in the age of computers, if it is not necessary, it will go away. That would make traditionalists like me really sad.
I wish you had signed AB 43, but it's not too late to save marriage by supporting the freedom to marry.